Reading about grief can help you to understand what you are going through and insure that you are not alone. It can also help you to develop ways to take care of yourself as you navigate this powerful experience. There have been a vast array of books written on the subject. We encourage you to explore them and find the ones that speak to you. Here is a list to start with. Some can be found on audio tape as well. Many families have reported them to be helpful.


General Grief
     When Bad Things Happen to Good People, by Harold S. Kushner
     Thoughts for the Lonely Nights, by Doug Manning
     Seven Choices, by Elizabeth Harper Neeld, Ph.D.
     The Soul in Grief, by Robert Romanyshyn
     Tear Soup, by Pat Schwiebert and Chuck DeKlyen
     Good Grief, by Granger E. Westberg
     A Time To Grieve, by Carol Staudacher

Grief and Spirituality
    Tracks of a Fellow Struggler, by John Claypool
     Living with Loss, Healing with Hope: A Jewish Perspective, by Rabbi Dr. Earl Grollman
     A Grace Disguised, by Gerald Sittser
     If God Is So Good, Why Do I Hurt So Bad?, by David Biebel

Loss of a Spouse
    Widowed, by Dr. Joyce Brothers
     Ghost Rider, by Neil Pearls
     The Year of Magical Thinking, by Joan Didion
     Finding Your Way After Your Spouse Dies, Marla Felber
     Epilogue- A Memoir,  by Anne Roiphe

Loss of a Child
    The Disappearance, by Genevieve Jurgensen
     A Broken Heart Still Beats, by Anne McCracken and Mary Semel
     Finding Hope When a Child Dies, by Sukie Miller, Ph.D.
     The Bereaved Parent, by Harriet Sarnoff Schiff
     Empty Arms:  Hope and Support for Those Who Have Suffered A Miscarriage, Stillborn or Tubal
     Pregnancy, by Pamela W. Vredvelt
     The Grieving Garden, by Suzanne Redfern & Susan Gilbert

Loss of a Parent
    Midlife Orphan, by Jane Brooks
     Motherless Daughters, by Hope Edelman
     Finding Your Way After Your Parent Dies, by Richard Gilbert

Friends Helping Friends
    The Last Thing We Talk About, by Joseph Bayly
     When Your Friend is Grieving, by Paula D’Arcy
     Don’t Ask for the Dead Man’s Golf Clubs, by Lynn Kelly
     Healing Conversations:  What To Say When You Don’t Know What To Say, by Nance Gullmartin

Men and Grief
    Swallowed by a Snake, by Thomas R. Golden
     Men’s Secret Wars, by Patrick A. Means

Dealing with Suicide
    My Son…My Son:  A Guide to Healing After a Suicide in the Family, by Iris Bolton and Curtis Mitchell
     Restore My Soul, by Lorraine Peterson
     The Empty Chair, by Beryl Glover

Helping Children with Grief
     Talking About Death, by Earl Grollman
     Part of Me Died, Too, by Virginia Lynn Fry

Books for Children and Teenagers
    The Hurt, by Teddi Doleski
     The Next Place, by Hanson
     Daddy’s Chair, by Sandy Lanton
     Someone Special Died, by Joan Singleton Prestine
     Fire In My Heart, Ice In My Veins, by Enid Traisman and Ben Sieff
     Why Do People Die, by Cynthia MacGregor
     What’s Heaven, by Maria Shriver